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From: Oluwatoyin Ajilore-Chukwuemeka <hellotoyinajilore@gmail.com>
To: Oluwaseun Folarin <oyetunde.folarin@rcm.edu.ng>
Subject: Joy is Personal
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DEAR OLUWASEUN,=0D=0A=0D=0AHow are you doing this week=3F=0D=0A=0D=0AI hope=
 you are making progress in your endeavour,=C2=A0no matter how=0D=0Alittle.=
 Keep going; I am rooting for you! Today's gist is a little=0D=0Apersonal l=
ike the title=F0=9F=98=81.=0D=0A=0D=0AI love my husband. If you know me a l=
ittle, you already know that. He=0D=0Ais an=C2=A0absolutely=C2=A0amazing ma=
n.=C2=A0I think=C2=A0his type is rare, and his=0D=0Aspecies should=C2=A0be =
protected=C2=A0at all costs.=F0=9F=98=81=0D=0A=0D=0AHowever, I have learned=
 that this appreciation for him, although=0D=0Ageneral, is also very person=
al and unique to me. What I love and=0D=0Aappreciate about him does not hav=
e to make sense to someone else. Some=0D=0Aof the things about him that blo=
w my mind the most don=E2=80=99t even have=0D=0Ato look like a big deal to =
someone else. And that goes vice versa.=0D=0AWhat someone else appreciates =
about their spouse doesn=E2=80=99t have to=0D=0Amake sense to me. They don=
=E2=80=99t need my validation.=C2=A0Just=C2=A0the same way=0D=0AI don't nee=
d theirs.=0D=0A=0D=0AHere lies the problem of living your life based on the=
 media.=C2=A0One=0D=0Ainsidious social media impact is how it seeks to erod=
e your uniqueness=0D=0Aand make you take a groupie perspective on your life=
. It elevates one=0D=0Aor a few person(s)' desires and experiences to a st=
andard that others=0D=0Amust keep. So someone shares:=0D=0A=0D=0A_My husban=
d cooks for me. He gives me this. He buys me that._=0D=0A=0D=0ASomeone read=
s that and makes a mental note that elevates this to what=0D=0Athey are loo=
king for in a spouse too. If he does not cook, he is not a=0D=0Agood man, e=
tc. The problem with it is that you are no longer living=0D=0Ayour life. Yo=
u are living the life prescribed to you by social=0D=0Amedia.=C2=A0The wors=
t-case scenario I have found is that this tends to=0D=0Araise people who no=
 longer even know what they=C2=A0really=C2=A0want but do=0D=0Anot realize t=
hey don=E2=80=99t.=C2=A0They have internalized the groupie=0D=0Amentality s=
o much that they do not even realize that what they=0D=0Acurrently call the=
ir desire is not=C2=A0really=C2=A0theirs.=0D=0A=0D=0AOne thing I love to sa=
y to young people on the edge of making marital=0D=0Adecisions is to take a=
 long, hard look at their partners beyond the=0D=0Alens of society and ask =
themselves:=C2=A0_Do I=C2=A0__really=C2=A0want to be with=0D=0Athis person=
=3F If I don=E2=80=99t get to show off the greatness of this person=0D=0Aon=
 social media, will I still appreciate that greatness=3F If there are=0D=0A=
no social standards to keep, does my heart=C2=A0really__=C2=A0go with this=
=0D=0Aperson=3F_=0D=0A=0D=0AOluwaseun, I=E2=80=99m here to remind you today=
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l form of your uniqueness.=0D=0AYes, there are aspects of it that are socia=
l, but that must not erode=0D=0Athe personal part. What makes your heart si=
ng=3F What gives you joy=3F=0D=0AWhat do you enjoy about your life=3F About=
 your friends=3F About your=0D=0Aspouse=3F What gives you the most joy abou=
t your life=3F Your=0D=0Arelationships do not have to make sense to someone=
 else; that is fine.=0D=0A=0D=0ALet yourself be. Let you live.=0D=0A=0D=0AP=
.S.:=C2=A0I saw this tweet some time ago that described how=0D=0Afundament=
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argin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space: pre=
-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px=
; font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif;">How are=
 you doing this week=3F</span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;"><sp=
an style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, '=
Times New Roman', serif;"><br></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-align:=
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ot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif;">I hope you are making progress in your en=
deavour,&nbsp;no matter how little. Keep going; I am rooting for you! Today=
's gist is a little personal like the title=F0=9F=98=81.</span></div><div s=
tyle=3D"text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=
=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br></span></sp=
an></div><div data-offset-key=3D"7hjqo-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: =
0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; =
direction: ltr; text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><spa=
n style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span da=
ta-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: =
0px;">I love my husband. If you know me a little, you already know that. He=
 is an&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"d9atk-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0p=
x; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=
=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">absolutely</span=
></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border=
: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;amazing man.&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=
=3D"d9atk-3-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0p=
x; outline: 0px;">I think</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"pa=
dding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;his type is rare=
, and his species should&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"d9atk-5-0" st=
yle=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-te=
xt=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"=
>be protected</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; =
margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;at all costs.=F0=9F=98=81</s=
pan></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"=
font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Ro=
man', serif;"><br></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=3D"baoj6-0-0" st=
yle=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position: rela=
tive; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: justify;"><span st=
yle=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times=
 New Roman', serif;"><span data-offset-key=3D"baoj6-0-0" style=3D"padding: =
0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" styl=
e=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">H</span><span d=
ata-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline:=
 0px; font-size: 18px;">owever</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"baoj6-=
1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span =
data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline=
: 0px; font-size: 18px;">, I have learned th</span><span data-text=3D"true"=
 style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">at this ap=
preciation for him, although general, is also very personal and unique to m=
e</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px;=
 border: 0px; outline: 0px;">. What I love and appreciate about him does no=
t have to make sense to someone else. Some of the things about him that blo=
w my mind the most don=E2=80=99t even have to look like a big deal to someo=
ne else. And that goes vice versa. What someone else appreciates about thei=
r spouse doesn=E2=80=99t have to make sense to me. They don=E2=80=99t need =
my validation.&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"baoj6-3-0" style=3D"pad=
ding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true=
" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">Just</spa=
n></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; borde=
r: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;the same way I don't need theirs.</span></span=
></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-size:=
 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', seri=
f;"><br></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=3D"d9h51-0-0" style=3D"pad=
ding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position: relative; whit=
e-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"fon=
t-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman=
', serif;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; bor=
der: 0px; outline: 0px;">Here lies the problem of living your life based on=
 the media.&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"d9h51-1-0" style=3D"paddin=
g: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" s=
tyle=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">One insidiou=
s social media impact is how it seeks to erode your uniqueness and make you=
 take a groupie perspective on your life</span></span><span data-text=3D"tr=
ue" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">. It el=
evates one or a few person(s)' desires and experiences to a standard that o=
thers must keep. So someone shares:</span></span></span></div><div style=3D=
"text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font=
-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br></span></span></div=
><div data-offset-key=3D"4bu1-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; bord=
er: 0px; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction=
: ltr; text-align: center;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D=
"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span data-text=3D=
"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><em>=
My husband cooks for me. He gives me this. He buys me that.</em></span></sp=
an></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-siz=
e: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', se=
rif;"><br></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=3D"bb98e-0-0" style=3D"p=
adding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position: relative; wh=
ite-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"f=
ont-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Rom=
an', serif;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; b=
order: 0px; outline: 0px;">Someone reads that and makes a mental note that =
elevates this to what they are looking for in a spouse too. If he does not =
cook, he is not a good man, etc. The problem with it is that you are no lon=
ger living your life. You are living the life prescribed to you by social m=
edia.&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"bb98e-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px=
; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=
=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">The worst-case s=
cenario I have found is that this tends to raise people who no longer even =
know what they&nbsp;</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"bb98e-2-0" style=
=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=
=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">r=
eally</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"bb98e-3-0" style=3D"padding: 0p=
x; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=
=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;want but d=
o not realize they don=E2=80=99t</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" styl=
e=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">.&nbsp;</span><=
span data-offset-key=3D"bb98e-5-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; bord=
er: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; mar=
gin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">They have internalized the groupie me=
ntality so much that they do not even realize that what they currently call=
 their desire is not&nbsp;</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"bb98e-6-0"=
 style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data=
-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x;">really</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"bb98e-7-0" style=3D"paddin=
g: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" s=
tyle=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;theirs=
</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; =
border: 0px; outline: 0px;">.</span></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-=
align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-famil=
y: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br></span></span></div><div =
data-offset-key=3D"7pmjb-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0=
px; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr=
; text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"fon=
t-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span data-offset-key=
=3D"7pmjb-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0p=
x; outline: 0px;">One thing I love to say to young people on the edge of ma=
king marital decisions is to take a long, hard look at their partners beyon=
d the lens of society and ask themselves:&nbsp;</span></span><span data-off=
set-key=3D"7pmjb-0-1" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outl=
ine: 0px; font-style: italic;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0=
px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><em>Do I&nbsp;</em></span></sp=
an><em><span data-offset-key=3D"7pmjb-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0=
px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: italic;"><span data-text=3D"true=
" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">really</s=
pan></span><span data-offset-key=3D"7pmjb-2-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margi=
n: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: italic;"><span data-text=3D"=
true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp=
;want to be with this person</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D=
"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">=3F If I don=E2=80=
=99t get to show off the greatness of this person on social media, will I s=
till appreciate that greatness=3F If there are no social standards to keep,=
 does my heart&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"7pmjb-4-0" style=3D"pad=
ding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: italic;"><sp=
an data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outl=
ine: 0px;">really</span></span></em><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"paddi=
ng: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><em>&nbsp;go with this pe=
rson=3F</em></span></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;">=
<span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times=
, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=
=3D"5d3al-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: j=
ustify;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georg=
ia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"pad=
ding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">Oluwaseun, I=E2=80=99m =
here to remind you today that joy is personal. By that, I mean that your jo=
y takes the external form of your uniqueness. Yes, there are aspects of it =
that are social, but that must not erode the personal part. What makes your=
 heart sing=3F What gives you joy=3F What do you enjoy about your life=3F A=
bout your friends=3F About your spouse=3F What gives you the most joy about=
 your life=3F Your relationships do not have to make sense to someone else;=
 that is fine.</span></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;=
"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Tim=
es, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=
=3D"9sab7-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: j=
ustify;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georg=
ia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"pad=
ding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">Let yourself be. Let yo=
u live.</span></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;"><span=
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mes New Roman', serif;"><br></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=3D"fch=
qr-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; posi=
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es, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span data-offset-key=3D"fchqr-0-0" style=3D=
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