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Delivery-date: Mon, 06 Nov 2023 00:31:37 -0500
From: Oluwatoyin Ajilore-Chukwuemeka <hellotoyinajilore@gmail.com>
To: Oluwaseun Folarin <oyetunde.folarin@rcm.edu.ng>
Subject: On Dead Words 2
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Date: Mon, 06 Nov 2023 05:30:45 +0000
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DEAR OLUWASEUN,=0D=0A=0D=0AHappy New Month!=0D=0A=0D=0AA couple of people r=
eached out, asking for more clarification on what=0D=0Adead words mean. The=
re was also a specific question about why I said=0D=0Athey didn't have to b=
e negative. I thought to answer those questions=0D=0Awith a new email becau=
se=C2=A0I believe=C2=A0it would be helpful for everyone.=0D=0A=0D=0AFirst o=
f all, I should note that the term "dead words" is NOT an=0D=0Aexplicit Scr=
iptural term. It is not the same as "dead works," which=0D=0Ais=C2=A0explic=
itly=C2=A0stated in the Bible. The words were the coinage in the=0D=0Apraye=
r I shared, and I was trying to report the prayer as verbatim as=0D=0AI cou=
ld.=C2=A0It was my mentor's personal choice of words she used to=0D=0Aconve=
y an idea, and you should take it that way and not elevate it to=0D=0Abecom=
e scriptural terminology. As I said in the last email, I didn't=0D=0Astrugg=
le to understand what she meant. That is=C2=A0probably=C2=A0because=0D=0Ath=
ere was a whole context of conversation that was not covered in the=0D=0Ama=
il.=C2=A0But beyond the context, the idea of it is also rooted in the=0D=0A=
Scripture I mentioned in the last email, which helped me understand=0D=0Abe=
tter.=0D=0A=0D=0ATo explain the idea I understood from those words, I will =
have to=0D=0Arefer you to that verse.=0D=0A=0D=0A_=E2=80=9CYou=C2=A0__shall=
=C2=A0hide them in the secret place of Your presence. From=0D=0Athe plots o=
f man; You=C2=A0shall=C2=A0keep them=C2=A0secretly__=C2=A0in a pavilion=0D=
=0Afrom the=C2=A0STRIFE OF TONGUES.=E2=80=9D_ =E2=80=AD=E2=80=AD(Psalms=E2=
=80=AC =E2=80=AD31=E2=80=AC:=E2=80=AD20=E2=80=AC=0D=0A=E2=80=ADNKJV=E2=80=
=AC=E2=80=AC) =C2=A0=0D=0A=0D=0AThe key word for me in this conversation is=
 "strife of tongues". I=0D=0Aunderstand it as tongues that cause strife and=
, in essence, words that=0D=0Acause strife. Strife means angry or bitter di=
sagreement or conflict.=0D=0AIt is possible to=C2=A0simply=C2=A0think of th=
is as a conflict between=0D=0Apeople.=C2=A0Some Bible versions took that po=
sition and interpreted strife=0D=0Aas gossip, slander, and accusations.=C2=
=A0But I also think strife can=0D=0Ahappen mentally and=C2=A0internally, no=
t=C2=A0necessarily=C2=A0physically=C2=A0with=0D=0Apeople.=C2=A0Oluwaseun, y=
ou=C2=A0probably=C2=A0have experienced it where you had a=0D=0Aconflict in =
your soul about making certain choices.=0D=0A=0D=0AThis is the kind of conf=
lict my understanding of dead words was=0D=0Azeroing into. And that was how=
 I understood the concept of dead words=0D=0A(for the sake of that mail).=
=C2=A0Dead words are the words that bring=0D=0Astrife to your soul and caus=
e conflict against the truth of God's word=0D=0Aabout you. I also think of =
dead words in direct contrast with Jesus=0D=0Adescribing his own words as s=
pirit and life (John 6:63).=C2=A0I think=C2=A0of=0D=0Adead words as words t=
hat pull you out of that journey of life=E2=80=94that=0D=0Arest that Jesus =
gives. That was why, in the last email, I described=0D=0Adead words this wa=
y:=0D=0A=0D=0A_I think__=C2=A0of them as words that deprive your soul of re=
st and=0D=0Aedification. Words that will lead you on the journey that God d=
id not=0D=0Asend you, even when they sound inspirational. Words that will m=
ake you=0D=0Anever quite settled, always trying to prove something. Words t=
hat will=0D=0Aagitate you out of the rest God gives His beloved.___=0D=0A__=
=0D=0A__=0D=0ATo answer the question about why=C2=A0I think=C2=A0they don't=
 have to be=0D=0Anegative, I will give an analogy.=C2=A0Have you ever had a=
n experience=0D=0Awhere you were certain you received an instruction from G=
od to do=0D=0Asomething specific=3F=C2=A0Did you have situations where some=
 of the mental=0D=0Aconflicts you had about obeying those instructions=C2=
=A0were based=C2=A0on=0D=0A"good reasons"=3F=C2=A0Say you knew you=C2=A0wer=
e supposed=C2=A0to go to Location B,=0D=0Abut a friend in an innocent conve=
rsation shared how Location A is the=0D=0Aplace where everyone is "making i=
t" now.=C2=A0And before you know it, you=0D=0Astart questioning if God=C2=
=A0really=C2=A0told you to go to Location A. That's=0D=0Aa simple example o=
f what I meant by "they don't have to be=0D=0Anegative".=C2=A0Interestingly=
, my friend's statement, which I referred to=0D=0Ain the last email is anot=
her example. What he said was not negative at=0D=0Aall. It was=C2=A0just=C2=
=A0a preference, which made sense on its own. But that=0D=0Apreference didn=
't align with the directions God was leading me on.=C2=A0=0D=0A=0D=0AI hope=
 this provides some of the clarifications requested. And I hope=0D=0Ait als=
o answered the questions about how to spot dead words that are=0D=0Anot neg=
ative. Beyond my answers, please feel free to meditate on these=0D=0Ayourse=
lf and come up with your own. That's the whole point of being=0D=0Asomeone =
with the capacity for thought! Please feel free to share your=0D=0Away of t=
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-height: 150%;"><div data-offset-key=3D"ba5rh-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; m=
argin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space: pre=
-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: justify;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=
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font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif;">Happy New=
 Month!</span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font=
-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style=3D"font-siz=
e: 18px;"><br><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; =
border: 0px; outline: 0px;">A couple of people reached out, asking for more=
 clarification on what dead words mean. There was also a specific question =
about why I said they didn't have to be negative. I thought to answer those=
 questions with a new email because&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"6p=
k79-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><s=
pan data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; out=
line: 0px;">I believe</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"paddin=
g: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;it would be helpful =
for everyone.</span></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=3D"2qmk-0-0" s=
tyle=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position: rel=
ative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: justify;"><span s=
tyle=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style=
=3D"font-size: 18px;"><br data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin:=
 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=
=3D"4bik6-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: j=
ustify;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', ser=
if;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"pad=
ding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">First of all, I should =
note that the term "dead words" is NOT an explicit Scriptural term. It is n=
ot the same as "dead works," which is&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"=
4bik6-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">=
<span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; o=
utline: 0px;">explicitly</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"pad=
ding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;stated in the Bib=
le. The words were the coinage in the prayer I shared, and I was trying to =
report the prayer as verbatim as I could.&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=
=3D"4bik6-3-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0p=
x; outline: 0px;">It was my mentor's personal choice of words she used to c=
onvey an idea, and you should take it that way and not elevate it to become=
 scriptural terminology</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padd=
ing: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">. As I said in the last =
email, I didn't struggle to understand what she meant. That is&nbsp;</span>=
<span data-offset-key=3D"4bik6-5-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; bor=
der: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; ma=
rgin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">probably</span></span><span data-tex=
t=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">=
&nbsp;because there was a whole context of conversation that was not covere=
d in the mail.&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"4bik6-7-0" style=3D"pad=
ding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true=
" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">But beyon=
d the context, the idea of it is also rooted in the Scripture I mentioned i=
n the last email, which helped me understand better</span></span><span data=
-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x;">.</span></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;"><span s=
tyle=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style=
=3D"font-size: 18px;"><br></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=3D"fsg60=
-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; positi=
on: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: justify;">=
<span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><spa=
n style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px=
; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">To explain the idea I understood=
 from those words, I will have to refer you to that verse.</span></span></s=
pan></div><br><div data-offset-key=3D"a2570-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; mar=
gin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; border: 0px; outline: =
0px; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align:=
 center;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', se=
rif;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"pa=
dding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><em>=E2=80=9CYou&nbsp;=
</em></span><em><span data-offset-key=3D"a2570-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; =
margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: italic;"><span data-tex=
t=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">=
shall</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: =
0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;hide them in the secret place of You=
r presence. From the plots of man; You&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D=
"a2570-3-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; =
font-style: italic;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin=
: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">shall</span></span><span data-text=3D"tr=
ue" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;k=
eep them&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"a2570-5-0" style=3D"padding: =
0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: italic;"><span dat=
a-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0=
px;">secretly</span></span></em><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: =
0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><em>&nbsp;in a pavilion from =
the&nbsp;<u><strong>strife of tongues</strong></u>.=E2=80=9D</em> =E2=80=AD=
=E2=80=AD(Psalms=E2=80=AC =E2=80=AD31=E2=80=AC:=E2=80=AD20=E2=80=AC =E2=80=
=ADNKJV=E2=80=AC=E2=80=AC) &nbsp;</span></span></span></div><div style=3D"t=
ext-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New=
 Roman', serif;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><br></span></span></div><=
div data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; borde=
r: 0px; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction:=
 ltr; text-align: justify;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Ti=
mes New Roman', serif;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span data-text=3D=
"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">The =
key word for me in this conversation is "strife of tongues". I understand i=
t as tongues that cause strife and, in essence, words that cause strife. St=
rife means angry or bitter disagreement or conflict. It is possible to&nbsp=
;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: =
0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding:=
 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">simply</span></span><span da=
ta-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: =
0px;">&nbsp;think of this as a conflict between people.&nbsp;</span><span d=
ata-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-3-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0p=
x; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0=
px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">Some Bible versions took that position and =
interpreted strife as gossip, slander, and accusations</span></span><span d=
ata-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline:=
 0px;">.&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-5-0" style=3D"padding: =
0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" styl=
e=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">But I also thin=
k strife can happen mentally and&nbsp;</span></span><span data-offset-key=
=3D"1kb4t-6-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0p=
x; outline: 0px;">internally</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-7-=
0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span da=
ta-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: =
0px;">, not&nbsp;</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-8-0" style=3D=
"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"=
true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">neces=
sarily</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-9-0" style=3D"padding: 0=
px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=
=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;</span></s=
pan><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-10-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px=
; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0p=
x; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">physically</span></span><span d=
ata-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-11-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0=
px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: =
0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;with people</span></span><span data-=
text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px=
;">.&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-13-0" style=3D"padding: 0px=
; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=
=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">Oluwaseun, you&n=
bsp;</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-14-0" style=3D"padding: 0p=
x; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=
=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">probably</span><=
/span><span data-offset-key=3D"1kb4t-15-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0=
px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: =
0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;have experienced it whe=
re you had a conflict in your soul about making certain choices</span></spa=
n><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px;=
 outline: 0px;">.</span></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justi=
fy;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"=
><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><br></span></span></div><div data-offset-=
key=3D"a52rp-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline:=
 0px; position: relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align=
: justify;"><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', =
serif;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"=
padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">This is the kind of =
conflict my understanding of dead words was zeroing into. And that was how =
I understood the concept of dead words (for the sake of that mail).&nbsp;</=
span><span data-offset-key=3D"a52rp-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px=
; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0p=
x; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">Dead words are the words that b=
ring strife to your soul and cause conflict against the truth of God's word=
 about you</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; mar=
gin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">. I also think of dead words in direc=
t contrast with Jesus describing his own words as spirit and life (John 6:6=
3).&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"a52rp-3-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; =
margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"=
padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">I think</span></span=
><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; =
outline: 0px;">&nbsp;of dead words as words that pull you out of that journ=
ey of life=E2=80=94that rest that Jesus gives. That was why, in the last em=
ail, I described dead words this way:</span></span></span></div><br><div da=
ta-offset-key=3D"co6m-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin-top: 0px; margin-r=
ight: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position: relativ=
e; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: center;"><span style=
=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style=3D"=
font-size: 18px;"><span data-offset-key=3D"co6m-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px;=
 margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: italic;"><span data-te=
xt=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"=
></span></span></span></span><span style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'T=
imes New Roman', serif;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span data-offset=
-key=3D"co6m-0-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline:=
 0px; font-style: italic;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; =
margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><em>I think</em></span></span><em>=
<span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; o=
utline: 0px;">&nbsp;of them as words that deprive your soul of rest and edi=
fication. Words that will lead you on the journey that God did not send you=
, even when they sound inspirational. Words that will make you never quite =
settled, always trying to prove something. Words that will agitate you out =
of the rest God gives His beloved.</span></em></span></span></div><span sty=
le=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style=
=3D"font-size: 18px;"><em></em></span></span><br><span style=3D"font-family=
: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style=3D"font-size: 18px=
;"><em></em></span></span><div style=3D"text-align: center;"><span style=3D=
"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style=3D"fon=
t-size: 18px;"><em></em></span></span></div><div data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-0-=
0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; position:=
 relative; white-space: pre-wrap; direction: ltr; text-align: justify;"><sp=
an style=3D"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span s=
tyle=3D"font-size: 18px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; m=
argin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">To answer the question about why&nb=
sp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-1-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin:=
 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding=
: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">I think</span></span><span =
data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline=
: 0px;">&nbsp;they don't have to be negative, I will give an analogy.&nbsp;=
</span><span data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-3-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0p=
x; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0=
px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">Have you ever had an experienc=
e where you were certain you received an instruction from God to do somethi=
ng specific</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; ma=
rgin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">=3F&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-ke=
y=3D"cr1l-5-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0p=
x;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0p=
x; outline: 0px;">Did you have situations where some of the mental conflict=
s you had about obeying those instructions&nbsp;</span></span><span data-of=
fset-key=3D"cr1l-6-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outl=
ine: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; bor=
der: 0px; outline: 0px;">were based</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"c=
r1l-7-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><s=
pan data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; out=
line: 0px;">&nbsp;on "good reasons"</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" s=
tyle=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">=3F&nbsp;</s=
pan><span data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-9-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; =
border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px;=
 margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">Say you knew you&nbsp;</span></sp=
an><span data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-10-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; =
border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px;=
 margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">were supposed</span></span><span =
data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-11-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0=
px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: =
0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;to go to Location B, but a friend in=
 an innocent conversation shared how Location A is the place where everyone=
 is "making it" now</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding:=
 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">.&nbsp;</span><span data-off=
set-key=3D"cr1l-13-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outl=
ine: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; bor=
der: 0px; outline: 0px;">And before you know it, you start questioning if G=
od&nbsp;</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-14-0" style=3D"padding:=
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le=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">really</span><=
/span><span data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-15-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0p=
x; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0=
px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;told you to go to Locati=
on A. That's a simple example of what I meant by "they don't have to be neg=
ative"</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin:=
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1l-17-0" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><s=
pan data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; out=
line: 0px;">Interestingly</span></span><span data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-18-0" =
style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span data-=
text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px=
;">, my friend's statement, which I referred to in the last email is anothe=
r example</span></span><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; marg=
in: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;">. What he said was not negative at all=
. It was&nbsp;</span><span data-offset-key=3D"cr1l-20-0" style=3D"padding:=
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pan><span data-text=3D"true" style=3D"padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: 0p=
x; outline: 0px;">&nbsp;a preference, which made sense on its own. But that=
 preference didn't align with the directions God was leading me on.&nbsp;</=
span></span></span></div><div style=3D"text-align: justify;"><span style=3D=
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uot;, serif;">I hope this provides some of the clarifications requested. An=
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re not negative. Beyond my answers, please feel free to meditate on these y=
ourself and come up with your own. That's the whole point of being someone =
with the capacity for thought! Please feel free to share your way of thinki=
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